He’s Nevertheless energetic throughout the Dating Site. Should This Trouble Me?

Reader Question:

i am seeing this guy for around 90 days today. We found online and just recently made a decision to maybe not see other folks. We actually appreciate both and needs to present the families.

He’s still productive in the dating internet site we came across off of. He admitted to having casual talks nonetheless regularly. I am not a jealous or insecure person, but this has type of hit me completely wrong.

Should this bother me?

-Ayra (North Carolina)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:

Ayra,

Should this bother you? Positively! They are however playing the field online and in search of a bigger, better package.

In my opinion you should phone his bluff. Simply tell him his terms of exclusivity suggest nothing if he or she is however single online. Claim that you two relocated to fast and simply tell him you’re very happy to go-back on line also, if the guy believes staying single is most beneficial.

Oh, and another thing, end sex with him.

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